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Remembering Jeffrey Zaslow, Author and Father

I met Jeff Zaslow after a talk in Atlanta several years ago.  He was discussing his experiences with my favorite book of his, The Girls of Ames: The Story of Women and a Forty Year Friendship.

I could immediately tell this father of three daughters was a deeply compassionate man who truly understood women. The trust he developed with his subjects came through in his writing and with each person in that audience. Once I read his WSJ columns and several other of his books I knew that it wasn’t just women who he “got.”
I spoke with Jeff briefly after his talk and wrote him about a story idea.  He was so gracious and I was impressed that he took the time to respond.
Some people live long lives and never contribute a fraction of what Jeffrey Zaslow did. Though I can’t imagine the shock and sadness his family is experiencing, I hope they can take some comfort in knowing that he made a true difference to those whose stories he told and to those of us fortunate enough to read them.
To read a beautiful tribute to Jeffrey Zaslow, writer and father, read Tara Parker-Pope’s article in the NY Times.
Rest In Peace, Jeff.

 

 

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Kahnweiler, author of The Introverted Leader: Building on Your Quiet Strength, also emphasizes that firms that have opted for more open work spaces must also provide employees with more private rooms where they can work and think in a quiet environment, and encourage workers to use them. While some employees may not want such space, the introverts among us, who make up about 40% to 50% of the population, need those spaces to be productive, she says.

There needs to be enough of these kinds of rooms so that they don’t always have to be booked in advance. At a lot of companies, she says, people have to fight for a conference room because of their scarcity. Continue reading the rest of this article...

We live in such an extroverted, centric world that the people who are the talkers – whether it be in brainstorming sessions or in coaching itself do a real disservice to people when they fill in the sentences. I think that equation we’ve all heard as coaches, is that you should have the 80:20 rule, coaches speaking 20%. That should mirror a lot of conversations you’re having, when you’re trying to get the best out of the introverts in your organization, allow them the dignity of their own rhythm. Continue reading the rest of this article...

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  1. In Memoriam: Jeff Zaslow » Wally Bock's Zero Draft linked to this post on February 18, 2012

    [...] One other person who remembered Jeff Zaslow is my friend Jennifer Kahnweiler in her post, “Remembering Jeffrey Zaslow, Author and Father”. [...]

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